Take... the Plunge?

I just stumbled upon an article I found to be very helpful and interesting more now than when I first read it. Thank God for the ability to document whatever you find on the internet through such simple mediums such as text files. I found this link there:


http://www.boundless.org/2005/articles/a0001334.cfm


I've gone through this, and seeing as I am struggling, should I go ahead and do what it advises? Should I concede 'defeat' to what I feel so quick? Is it possible to wait?


This is the first post I have with the tag 'marriage'. I don't know if I'm thinking any straight. God forgive me, and provide me with enlightenment...


God bless you.