I believe in the rule of mura and mahal:
"Pag minura ka, mahalin mo."
This is in line with something long taught from the Bible:
"Do not take revenge, my friends, but leave room for God's wrath, for it is written: "It is mine to avenge; I will repay," says the Lord. On the contrary: "If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head." Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good."
- Romans 12:19-21
God bless you!